Because it looks like it will happen soon....

When you say main place do you mean your colony? If so then you will be unable to conquer other colonies and the person that conquers you will gain workers and resources since they have you conquered. Other than that nothing really happens.

Ah, well i figure they would get my stuff. I was wondering if I would be under their rule or would I have to make a new place again (if I can)?

No you cannot make another colony on the same world, it would actually get you banned. I guess technically you will be under their rule but nothing really happens.
No one else can conquer your colony while you are conquered by them and the resources they gain are not taken from you. It can actually be a good thing to be conquered since generally people leave you alone then.

Ok, thank you for the info.

No problem, I would suggest you apply for a mentor on the following link. viewtopic.php?f=47&t=1036&start=0

That will allow us to match you with a skilled player from your timezone to help you learn the game as well as answer any questions you may have and possibly get you into an alliance. Always feel free to post any questions you may have on the forums or pm me here or on skype. korupt.drummer

Thanks, but I will be gone for about 1 to 1&1/2 month soon ( hopefully less than that). So, I kind of don't want to wast someones time training me to have me disappear for a while. I will looked into it when I get back though, but in the meantime I will try to keep my place as long as possible ( even if the odds are against me at the moment). Thanks again for all your help, and have a nice day.

Hope to see you come back to BD when you return from your holiday, don't forgot to apply for a mentor, one of the best ways to tackle the learning curve